The downsides of an Au Pair Adventure
because being an aupair isn't all sunshine and rainbows...
Being an aupair isn’t all sunshine and rainbows and has its downsides. being an au pair comes with its own set of challenges and downsides, despite the many rewarding aspects of the role. Here are some of the key realities that potential au pairs should be aware of:
Cultural adjustment:
Adapting to a new culture can be very challenging. Differences in lifestyle, customs, and language barriers might lead to feelings of isolation or homesickness. Culture shock is definitely a real thing but it’s temporary.
Learning the language may be difficult:
Learning a new language is not impossible but it may be very difficult. I took a few language courses in the beginning on my aupair journey but it wasn’t enough for me to have that included feeling. I often felt very left out.
Workload and responsibilities:
The job can be demanding, with long hours and various responsibilities that may include childcare, housework, and meal preparation. Balancing these tasks can be stressful, especially without sufficient time off. I luckily had enough time off, but I can personally say I would find myself a little overwhelmed at times with things that needed to be done around the house.
Family Dynamics and Compatibility: Not every match with a host family may be ideal. Differences in parenting styles, expectations, or personality clashes can lead to tension and dissatisfaction. For some aupairs everything seems to work out perfectly. From time to time I did tend to butt heads with my host parents.
Financial Considerations: While au pairs may receive compensation in the form of a stipend, it may not be enough to cover personal expenses, travel, or savings, particularly in more expensive countries.
Emotional Challenges: Being far from home and experiencing new environments can lead to emotional challenges, including loneliness or anxiety, particularly if you're not well-prepared for the transition.